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I am a 40 year old Pastor. I became a follower of Jesus Christ, a disciple, a Christian, at the age of 28. My father is a wonderful man, but I was not raised in a spiritual home. My grandfather is a wonderful man, but my father was not raised in a spiritual home, either. What I mean by spiritual home is one where the father actively and intentionally leads in the spiritual growth of the family. I am learning how to do this at the same time I am learning how to be a Pastor. The two jobs are similar, and both are very important. But, my first ministry is to my family.
I have been helped in my learning to be the spiritual leader of my home by a number of good resources. I have also edited a Baptist catechism for my church and family and look forward to sharing that over the years. I have provided some ideas at the bottom of this post to help with family worship. But before we get to the list, read this quote by John Piper:
“Where a man belongs is on his knees beside his wife, leading in prayer. Where a man belongs is at the bedside of his children, leading in devotion and prayer. Where a man belongs is in the driver’s seat, leading his family to the house of God. Where a man belongs is up early and alone with God, seeking vision and direction for the family. Men, I challenge you in the name of Jesus Christ our King, be where you belong!” – John Piper
So, where are you, man? May all men be where they belong.


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Every man should read this and ask themselves where they stand. Your message is so full of what a husband, father should be. Ellis is so bless, also Martha. Thanks for sharing your message.